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Choreographing the Mind

Someone asked me recently, “Do you like to listen to music while making love?”“Oh, my God”, I replied. “Of course! I couldn’t imagine it making love without it! It fuels my spirit, drives my senses, and it makes it all feel like a dance!” Bingo…Music choreographes the mind! It makes intimacy so much more fuller, more intense, more fun! Engage the mind I say, and the rest always follows! I thought about this for days, as it made me wonder what else engages my mind and helps me feel the passion and dance during lovemaking. I figured if I took a...

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Freedom to be a Woman: A Reason To Celebrate!

Happy Birthday, America—especially to us women! The 4th of July usually means celebration of our democracy, independance and freedom all revolving about the pursuit of happiness. We can choose our religion, or even choose no religion, choose leaders, our laws, where we wish to live, how we want to live…we have so many choices, all coming somehow together into an organized chaos that we call our home land. I’m taking just a little time the next few days to be thankful for living on this side of the world. Think of the millions of women, just a few thousand miles away, that...

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Elder Porn for Japan, Boomers to Follow?

On of the fastest growing genres in Japanese porn is “Elder Porn”.  It seems as the eroticism of elders is captivating the younger viewers. Hmm…this certainly takes their respect of elders to an even higher level than one could imagine! Check out the story from Time: http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,1815509,00.html Us Baby Boomers have created economic surges and trends through every phase of our lives since the 1950’s…everything from baby food, to fitness crazes, to fad diets, and just fads in general. Look at what us women did for ourselves, via...

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You Got To Wiggle It, Just a Little Bit

This past Saturday night, I spent the evening in, dancing in the dark to my cheesiest disco music…It was Raining Men, I Felt like a Brick House, thought about a White Wedding Day, while even Cher made me Believe. I fantasied being a private dancer and wiggled every part known to mankind. There was something about the deep base, rhythmic beat that make my hips feel out of control, my blood race…and guess what??? I was getting more and more excited! Yeeehaaa! No foreplay or marital aids were required! A few years ago, I read somewhere that the music that puts women ‘in...

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Faking The Big O

I caught the tail end of “When Harry Met Sally” late last night when I couldn’t get to sleep. Meg Ryan faking orgasm in a restaurant to befuddled Billy Crystal has got to be the movie’s signature scene. Here he’s thinking that he is the amazing lover, and she painfully makes him wonder. Well, true confession here, I recall doing that in my twenties when I was first married…and it wasn’t because I wanted it to end, or that he was not attentive, passionate, skilled, etc. In my mind, it just seemed like it was taking ‘too’ long. Truth be...

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Is Bigger Really Better???

What is the fascination with size anyhow??? Super size butts, bigger boobs, big penises, bigger lips, man trucks and Hummers, super size fries, 50 gazillion inch plasma TV??? Just when is bigger TOO damn big? If you’re wondering what has started me on this rant, well, I just saw a video from Fox News about a 28 year old wife and mother from Texas, Sheyla Hershey. She now is in Brazil’s Guinness Book of World Records for having the largest breast implants, and her 34FFF aren’t enough for her. Yea, you heard that. She’s going to Brazil to do the duty, as there’s a...

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