Posts Tagged "orgasm"

Rubbing During Sex

Dear Dr. Melanie, I enjoy clitoris stimulation while my husband is penetrating my vagina. He thinks stimulation is needed just before penetration and thinks it’s abnormal to continue stimulating my clitoris once he’s inside. Do you think so? Signed, Frustrated. Dear Frustrated, Most women need direct stimulation of the clitoris to orgasm/climax. The vagina and the clitoris are positioned in such a way that it’s not easy to orgasm simply from a penis, finger or dildo thrusting inside the vagina. You might illustrate what you experience by asking him to withdraw from inside of you...

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Faking The Big O

I caught the tail end of “When Harry Met Sally” late last night when I couldn’t get to sleep. Meg Ryan faking orgasm in a restaurant to befuddled Billy Crystal has got to be the movie’s signature scene. Here he’s thinking that he is the amazing lover, and she painfully makes him wonder. Well, true confession here, I recall doing that in my twenties when I was first married…and it wasn’t because I wanted it to end, or that he was not attentive, passionate, skilled, etc. In my mind, it just seemed like it was taking ‘too’ long. Truth be...

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