What Makes Someone Sexy?

Ricardo Montalban, the latin-machissmo-suave-dark-handsome-Fantasy Island Mr Roerke, beloved long-time actor, passed away just a few days ago. For me, Ricardo ate, spit, breathed, exuded, exemplified pure sensuality…and not because he was super handsome or a model of great male form…no. It had nothing to do with his physical features at all.

Ricardo was confident in his personal assessment that he was sensual…that confidence in of itself made him sexy. His eye contact, slow and sometime deliberate pauses in phrases, words, made it seem more intense, more personal, more engaging, and simply engaging. I would even say it was kind of flirting he did with practically everyone, no matter what size, age or even gender. What made it work was that he did so with such respect, and style.

Being sensuous, feeling and being sexy…
shall you embrace it?
Will you allow it to confidently flow and exude from every little pore?
Yes—til breath no more….