Validate Your Lover and Park at a Meter Instead
I think my first marriage slowly deteriorated once something stopped happening between my ex and I….we stopped saying sincere complimentary things to one another. As a woman, I stopped giving verbal appreciation for the everyday good little and big things he would do, and he in turn, stopped validating my feelings and critiqued them instead. Oh, how simply stupid we can be the first 30 or 40 years of our lives…and not just with our lovers and/or mates, but also with everyone around us, our family, friends, our co-workers, the supermarket check out clerks, the bank teller, flower...
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