Birthday Sex:

Oh, how I am longing for ‘Birthday Sex’…you know, the kind where your lover gives you especially what you like, without any restraints on time. There is no ‘score-keeping’. Damn! You can even be a little selfish and luxuriate in the pleasure. They know it’s your special day, so attention to all the little details like music, flowers, oils, clean sheets, long, loooooong kisses, caresses, and the touch that says “Don’t worry baby, I love what I am doing and will do it for as long as you want or like it”…
Sigh. I so love that.

You know what? I could very well long for:
—‘Anniversary Sex’ (“I still love you so much, Honey”), or
—“Christmas Sex” (“Oh Santa, I love it when I sit on your lap”), or
—“New Year’s Eve Sex (Did I really leave my underwear in the car??),
—‘Honeymoon Sex’ (“Put that thing away boy, and where is the A&D anyway?”)
Wow, I am starting to realize that the flavor and dynamic of sex changes with special occasions or events, and hmmm—-I think I do like flavors!!!

So, since it isn’t my birthday, and we’re way into the New Year, maybe I can think of some ‘other occasion sex’ that will take it up a notch with my partner tonight.
I know! How about “I’m bringing home a new toy for us to try out tonight” sex???

Yep, I think that will work. And since red is my color, I found something called “El Toro”…I am sure that will do. And if not, I am still very, very happy with “I am so in love with you” sex.

P.S. What is your favorite ‘occasion’ type sex??? How do you get your partner in the mood or ready for it?

P.P.S. And, just in case you are curious about El Toro, we carry that item at my sex toy party company
Even better, host a sex toy party and you learn some new tips and techniques—and maybe you can get some ‘Birthday Sex’on your calendar!

Rina Valan, Expert Author

Rina Valan, Basic Author


  1. what about ” We’re having a baby” sex? Thats the best sex so far!

  2. I” m not that fussy, been married for 16 years—I’ll take ANY kind of sex!

  3. I agree with this. I think couples lose track of the excitement in their relationships and are only romantic to their partners on special occasions, like Valentine’s Day. Typically people will say, “I have to be nice to my mate, it’s Valentine’s Day!” Well I say, “Hey, what about the rest of the year!”